It’s reached that time of your child’s life where they have moved over to a new school or have started one for the first time in their life. Not only is this a big change for your child, but you as well, making times a little strained as you all settle into this new routine. However, if you find that your child is struggling to settle into their new school, it is imperative that you listen to them, give them the chance to talk and do your best to make this time as easy as possible for them. Here are some top tips from a private school in Richmond on helping your child settle into a new school.
It sounds simple enough, but the way you approach your child to talk to them makes a huge difference. Questions such as ‘what’s the matter’ may confuse them as they already are unable to process the real reason as to why they are struggling to settle into school. Ask them simple and easy questions such as who they sat next to in lunch or who they talked to in their day. The idea is to get a good feel for how their day was going and how they felt throughout it. Once you get a good understanding, you will be able to help your child pinpoint the real issue.
If your child picks up on the fact that you are anxious as well, it will only elevate their feelings. Be confident around them and give them reassurance. Remind them that it is okay to feel nervous or worried at times, but to always talk about it and never hold things in. It is easy to forget that their teachers are also there to be empathetic and understanding so ensure your child knows that they can go to them whenever they need.
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