It’s almost been three months since I was a victim of a robbery. My car was broken into right outside our house and my handbag and belongings were stolen.
11 weeks on and I still feel sick when I think about it. It wasn’t the financial or material side that bothered me so much, it was the emotions that came with someone doing something like that.
The idea of someone rifling through my handbag and casually discarding things they thought were worthless. It feels like a violation. I hated thinking of the things I couldn’t replace. The pictures I had of my husband and kids that I don’t have elsewhere. Pictures and little notes the kids had made. You can imagine how much stuff as a mum of three, I had in there!
Our local area seems to be a target at the moment. We’ve had houses being broken into, cars stolen, along with car break-ins such as ours. Due to this, I’ve become slightly more paranoid. It may be time to finally invest in a good home security system, perhaps even something as strong as a Blockade Vault Door for added peace of mind.
Perhaps that’s a good thing in a way. I was previously much more naive and trusting. However it wasn’t naivety that led to my handbag being left in my car, it was good old exhaustion and forgetfulness! I’d brought the kids back from karate one evening, popped to the shops on the way back, so by the time I had all three kids safely in the house, along with the shopping bags, I completely forgot my handbag was still in the car. A mistake I won’t make again!
Here are some of the things we’re doing to try and prevent a robbery from happening again:
If you are unlucky enough to still be a victim of a robbery then there are a few things to remember.
Hopefully that may be of some help, even if it is just a reminder to be that little bit more careful with your possessions!
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We are having a massive wave of robbery in our neighbourhood too at the moment so we are taking extra care so thank you for sharing your tips here and I'm sorry this happened to you.
Ah, that's a terrible thing to happen to you. I have never been the victim of a serious robbery like that (I've had my purse stolen a few times but only had money in and nothing sentimental) but I am not surprised it leaves a lasting effect. Great tips you've given to help prevent it happening to someone else!
I'm so sorry you had to go through such a horrible experience - thank you for sharing tips for avoiding a robbery, as it's not something anyone should experience!
That must have been terrible, I would be so upset at losing photos x
Oh my goodness, how awful. I can't even begin to imagine how vulnerable you must feel.
So sorry that that happened to you. You've certainly turned it into a learning experience for us to learn from it . Bless you . My husbands home house used to get burgled a lot when he was young ; he still has scars from it. Mind you x
Oh how horrible for you, I hate people that break into anywhere as it's just low. Great tips